Hey little man. I came across an article the other day and it made me think about you and your future. The article was about which college degrees are associated with individuals in the top 1% of income earners.

Now I’m not suggesting that you need to major in any of the areas listed in this article, nor am I suggesting that being ultra-wealthy should be your No. 1 goal in life. After all, as my childhood friend Jason Ellis used to say, “the best things in life aren’t things” (e.g. the best in life don’t necessarily cost money).

That said, unless the world shifts away from a monetary economic system (highly unlikely in my personal opinion) earning money is important, because it can help lower your general stress levels (ex: making ends meet week to week sucks) and because it can free up one of the most important commodities you have; your time.

The best scenario, from my experience, is to do something that you really love for a living (there are a lot of cliche’s regarding this approach). So for example, if you love playing the guitar, figure out a way to make some ongoing income from that particular activity.

Another good approach I’ve seen folks use is to focus on a profession that is known for earning lots of money (like the ones listed in the article I referenced at the beginning of this post) and working your butt off in that profession for a period of time (e.g. years). Then, once you’re satisfied with your level of financial security, you can walk away from that industry and focus on something you truly love (like perhaps opening your business or non-profit organization, focused on something you actually enjoy doing regardless of money).

Granted, there’s a risk that you’ll develop a lust for money and power, but I’ve met a fair share of people that went this route and did not succumb to money hunger.

When I was young, your grandfather once mentioned something along the lines of “you’ll be an adult much longer than you’ll be a kid.” I took that to mean that you should start preparing for adulthood while you’re still very young. Your mother did that, investing in real estate as a teenager. And it paid off for her in a huge way (she was more or less financially secure in her mid-twenties or so). Mind you, this doesn’t mean that you should be in a hurry to grow up. On the contrary, you should cherish your youthful spirit and fight hard to retain it in even in adulthood.

But just make sure to think ahead and sacrifice a little now to reap the rewards later in life. And learn to work hard at whatever you’re doing from the get go. That’s something your grandmother help instill in me and something that I hope that your mother and I can instill in you.

P.S. Don’t waste your time pursuing dead ends like “street cred”, “party like a rockstar”, or “chasing the dragon”. Your dad did a little of each and can personally vouch for just how unintelligent those pursuits can be.

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Hello my boy. Late last night, it occurred to me that I should give you a short list of books that had a permanent impact on me as I was growing up. So I did what I always do when an idea strikes me late at night; I emailed myself a reminder to write down that list for you and post it here on this blog.

Some of these will be tough reads, so if you struggle with reading and understanding them, don’t worry. Just put them down and come back to them when you’re a little older. And don’t hesitate to read them more than once.

Rather then give you my thoughts and opinions on why these books are important, I’d rather leave you with tabula rasa of sorts and let you fill in the canvas of perspective on your own. Just please make sure to read each of them cover to cover. It would mean a lot to your old man.

A Wrinkle in Time

Huckleberry Finn

Animal Farm

Fahrenheit 451

Anthem

Brave New World

One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest

Storming Heaven

And finally…

Choose Your Own Adventure

P.S. Always choose your own adventure, son.

 

 

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Don’t be afraid to be good

December 28, 2011

This week, we moved out of our home in Coconut Grove (fortunately, we bought in an extremely rent-friendly neighborhood, which is always a smart move when you buy, but that’s a story for another day…). Anyway, one of the guys that worked for the moving company that was helping us with the move was a [...]

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A simple definition of aetheism

December 1, 2011

Hey young Sebi. I just wanted to follow up yesterday’s post about uncle Pancho. Unlike many people (including many friends and family) I do not subscribe to religion nor do I believe in what most people refer to as god. I do believe in the wonder and mystery of life, I do believe in consciousness [...]

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Ode to Pancho

December 1, 2011

Hey young Sebi. Today you lost your great uncle Pancho (his real name is Hector Caldiero). Sadly, you and your mother never had a chance to meet him. He was a special man who lived an interesting life, and most importantly, he made my aunt Aida (I call her “Titi”) a happy lady and helped [...]

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Be thankful every day

November 23, 2011

Hey there little man. On the eve of Thanksgiving, I wanted to take a moment to remind you not to wait until this holiday to be thankful. Life is full of adversity and plain old suckiness, but don’t allow any of that stuff to take away your sense of gratefulness and positivity. I’m personally going [...]

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Put in your 10,000 hours

October 22, 2011

Tonight, your mother and I went to see a great local band called Suenalo. As I watched the various talented musicians do their thing, taking turns soloing and making the crowd move, I thought about how important it is to put in the hours needed to be really really good at something (e.g. a professional). [...]

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Hanging out with friends

October 7, 2011

Hey there young man. If you look down in the lower right-hand corner of this photo, you will see yourself standing there.       You’re the one in the bright blue shoes. I’m the one in the black t-shirt corralling you. The guy in the black tank top is Mike.  The guy in the [...]

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I’m like most dads after all

September 27, 2011

Why am I like most dads (or at least my dad)? Because one of my main goals in life is to make life easier for you than it was for me. This might not make sense to you for a long time (if ever) but one of the most stressful aspects of adult life is [...]

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Your first trip to the Magic Kingdom

August 22, 2011

Hey there little man. Yesterday, we took you to Disney World’s Magic Kingdom for the first time. We all had an absolute blast! We road on the tea cups, It’s a Small World, Pirates of the Caribbean, and Buzz Lightyear. You got scared on Pirates of the Caribbean (which is normal) but didn’t cry or [...]

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